Are "bad diabetes days" affecting your relationships?
Let me start by defining bad diabetes day as one in which your sugar levels are out of control. I think it is safe to say that most of us have experienced at least one day in which, no matter how much of a good diabetic we try to be, our numbers just dont seem to cooperate. Let me clarify by saying that I dont think there is a right or wrong way to be a diabetic person and/or live a diabetic life. We embrace our circumstances in various ways. By being a good diabetic I am referring to the usual misconception many people seem to have about what being a good diabetic means.
Namely, one who counts carbs, exercises, and takes their insulin whenever he/she is supposed to. Yes, all that is helpful, but it is not enough. I am referring, here, to the misleading mindset of you can control what you eat, so you can control your numbers. Counting carbs and taking insulin is not enough to control the numbers. That is not all it takes. Honestly, sometimes I feel theres no real way to actually have full control of them. It is not as easy as some people think it is. Our numbers are not dependent merely on what we eat. Some days, no matter how hard we try, the world will just push us the other way. To feel desperate and helpless during these days is understandable, and it is fine to feel that way sometimes. What is not fine is to hide why we feel how we feel.
I say to hide why we feel how we feel, instead of merely hiding how we feel because sometimes it is almost impossible to hide the how, especially when our sugar levels are out of control. For a lot of us when this happens, that how Continue reading